He never goes much deeper than that at those early stages, though, because he wants to catalog you as simply as possible.16. Think about the collectors you see in movies and in television. A collector only shows you as much of himself as he can bear. Surrounding himself with things he attaches meaning to is about as much of a relationship as he can handle. And, in all honesty, a smart woman who’s on to his game is almost more certain to be a victim of his behavior than someone who just thinks he’s a sh*tty boyfriend. The seemingly sensitive woman will think if she loves him just right, she can break his habit.
But he’s just paying close attention to his newest find.
Introduction There may be evidence that suggests that your man is a Player. He wouldn’t dream of insulting his current lovely lady by two-timing her.
Hubbers R Pseudomen and Isabella Snow have offered up some analysis on this topic. Before we label him too quickly, let's look at what's really going on with him and figure it out.
You think collecting is the purview of the nerdy, the creepy, or the childlike. Collectors do this in service of honesty and so they can feel like a nice guy but they’ll continue to make you feel special enough that you might one day be the one to "win" them.5. You might get sick of the ups and downs and express uncertainty.